questions about “gift”

about what we call gift

gift is the stuff which sended to the person who know how to appreciate it and will enjoy it.

about anti-gift

that must be something what can hunt the receivers. maybe that is a bad memory in the past, or maybe that is a afraid thing in the future. in short, anti-gift is the giver remind the bad thing of the receiver.

about unwanted gift

i think that could be understand as unsincerity gift. that could be the stuff what the giver doesn’t want to keep anymore, or the giver has some ulterior motive about it.

about rejection

for me, first I will reject the unwanted gift (talked above). secondly, I will reject loopback gift because that is also unsincerely. third, I will reject the gift from the person who I hate.

about status relationship

gift always tires people. make poor guy be more poor,make rich person become more and more rich. I have saw a news: on the Mayer’s 50 years old birthday, every villager went to celebrate it. the Mayer hold his birthday party on the hall of the goverment office building, with the big poster on his name. one poor villager even sell his blood to please the Mayer…

about selfishness

selfish people will not care others, they will not spend lots of money or lots attention on gift. they give what they detest and rejest thing.

I don’t understand what is “code around receiving” mean?